Framing the Scenes

Framing the Scenes

Framing the scenes of your life comes naturally. Furthermore, each one of us does it daily. Consciously recognizing one’s frames not only supports self-awareness, it enhances a better understanding of the world. Building a successful career requires the skill of...
Process As Teacher

Process As Teacher

Follow my posts to see how I use them as teacher. Then, develop your own systematic process to continually learn and sharpen your skills and knowledge. The Kickass Koach Podcast turned four years old this week. In other words, I’m starting my fifth season with...
Self-Deception: the Lazy Way

Self-Deception: the Lazy Way

Self-deception is the lazy way. However, deception, more broadly has proven to be essential to evolution. Just the same self-deception is living in an alternate reality of one’s own making. It is a lie. Refuse to waste energy on self- deception. It eats up...
Weakness: Strength Made Perfect

Weakness: Strength Made Perfect

Weakness as strength made perfect probably sounds counter-intuitive. Read on to understand my point, reflect on it and please leave a comment. It is important to focus first on, and always circle back to, strengths. Not to ignore weaknesses but rather to help...
Voice in the Active and Passive

Voice in the Active and Passive

Communicate clearly, realizing your patterns reveal more than you intend.  An ability to shift intentionally & effectively from the active to passive voice puts you one step closer to communicating from & with self awareness. I ranted in this week’s...
Feeling Inadequate = Learned Helplessness

Feeling Inadequate = Learned Helplessness

Feeling inadequate? Even some of the time? Turns out the blame game that many play, keeps them small and limits their agency. They feel like they’re not enough. Many may even be stuck within what we often call an inferiority complex. Choosing instead to build a...